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Published July 2, 2023

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There are lot of things people don’t tell you when you begin doing your genealogy at age 24.

They don’t tell you—although you soon find out—that you’ll likely be the youngest in the room (Maybe even for decades … in my case it was until I was in the presence of either Jeremy Lutz or Justin Houser).

They don’t tell you that despite your original goal of tracing each of your own lines to an immigrant, you might write four commercially published books on genealogy topics.

Or serve as an executive director of a statewide society in the genealogy community.

Or speak all across the country, especially in German genealogy.

And they don’t tell you about profound the sense of loss is when you lose a longtime friend in the genealogy community.

But that’s the feeling I had late last month when I heard of the unexpected death of Roland Paul, retired director of the world-renown Instituts für pfälzische Geschichte und Volkskunde (in English, the “Institute of Palatine History and Folklore”) n Kaiserslautern.

For a generation Paul was a friendly face to those with German ancestry, both at the institute as well as being a frequent lecturer to American genealogy groups.

He also wrote books, including the Pfälzer in Amerika/Palatines in America, subtitled “Writings on the Migration History of the Palatinate,” which included letters from those who left Germany for America, which are great primary sources about these families.

Among the prize jewels of the collections at the institute is a card file with thousands of names of emigrants to America (a version of this card file is also available at the Pennsylvania German Cultural Heritage Center on the campus of Kutztown University in Pennsylvania).

I had heard Paul speak during a few conferences some years ago, but the meeting I will remember forever in early September 2022, when I had decided at the last minute to travel to Germany to visit several ancestral hometowns as well as attend a genealogy conference. Paul and I met up as we were both arriving at the conference and it took us both a moment to remember each other.

Once that happened, we talked and had drinks together during the weekend, and I found out he was actually born in Steinwenden, one of those ancestral hometowns I had visited.

I’m sorry we won’t be able to continue the conversations we started.

A profound loss, indeed.

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Last week was the 1,300th “Roots & Branches” column stretching back a quarter century to its debut in 1998. Happy milestone and thanks for all you readers!

As it happens, this fell on the day after my 63rd birthday, so I’ve been writing these weekly installments for just about two fifths of my life!

5 Comments

  1. Rick Bender

    10 months ago  

    Even beginning at age 47, I was usually one of the youngest in the room. It all requires so much time that you almost HAVE to postpone it until you’re retired; as a result, most of us start off with “one foot in the grave”. And then you meet professionals who are usually older than you are, and so it goes.

    As a result, the new-found camaraderie, at a relatively late time in your lives, is usually brief; the sense of loss, disheartening, if not achingly painful, with the realization that you both ought to have started much sooner.

    You started early enough to reach 1300 columns. Maybe today’s mid-life “youngsters” will see column 2000!


    • 10 months ago  

      … I’m not sure I want to do the calculation of how long I’d have to write to reach no. 2000 … I’d say its possible but not probable! 🙂


  2. Ken Binzer

    10 months ago  

    I started late in genealogy; and at 81, I’m no longer the youngest in the room!


    • 10 months ago  

      … there’s room for folks to start at any age! Hope you’re making good progress, Ken!


  3. 10 months ago  

    Roland and I were best friends, no transatalantic brothers!. His mom was a relative of mine via the Swiss Webers, I called her cousin and she loved it. I cooked many lavish Pennsylvania Dutch dinners in that wonderful old house in Steinwenden, it was a spiritual home and Roland was the little brother I never had. I am so so sad to lose him. Thank you James for honoring him, W3